What I learned this week
Sometimes, surprise yourself.
Sometimes, surprise yourself.
We’re heading into one of those times of years where there are more demands on my time than time to deal with them. But as ever, I have a solution to my time-crunch problem. I just have to dig it out and remember what it is. Step back. I ask myself, “What are you doing,…
Some of my colleagues have been talking about finding balance, and they don’t actually burst out laughing when they talk about it, so they must mean it. To me, it sounds like just one more thing to beat yourself up over, your regrettable lack of balance. Look, the only people who do good work are…
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So yesterday I was talking about the difficulty of setting priorities when you have a lot of competing demands and some of the work may prove unnecessary in the long run, but if you don’t do it, you may starve and how this whole situation leads to dithering and spending time doing less important tasks…
I usually spend some mornings each week at my favorite coffee shop, working. The change of scenery is good for me, and sometimes if I have to spend one more hour in my own house, I won’t be responsible for my actions. But occasionally I go somewhere else, because sometimes (not too often!) change is…
So I think of litttle (step)sister Natalie as beautiful, kind, and loving, but when I start putting her on the page, she also has a sarcastic streak, is extremely forgetful, and occasionally gets impatient with Brianna’s hovering. I’m loving how she’s turning out, with a little spice to counteract the sugar. Brianna reveals herself to…